| 2009-12-12 星期六(Saturday) 晴 |
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心学,王守仁,行知合一,这些琐碎的词语如今在我脑海里终于连成一线了,在我看了<明朝那些事>的时候.
小时候看历史书,只对打打杀杀感兴趣,认为好男儿当上阵杀敌,于是三国水浒看了N遍,关于明史,也只对朱元璋灭元那段有兴趣,印象最深的当属徐达和常遇春,且一度想改名为刘玉春.还好没有,不然今天的外号就是春哥了.不过现在,我对明朝的文官有了一个新的认识.原来,在那封建地主阶级统治的明朝,言官是可以骂皇帝的,内阁大臣是可以不甩皇帝批文的....总之,这是一部好书(共七套).
之所以提到王守仁,是因为他提出的"行知合一".他的弟子徐玠,也就是斗倒严党的那个牛人,曾经在仕途上遭遇了重大的挫折,作者用了四个字形容徐当时的心情:信仰缺失.我不禁心里一怔:这四个词概括得相当好,说到我心里去了.徐是个典型的知识分子,从小读圣贤书,长大后考取功名,学而优则仕,顺理成章地留在朝廷为官.这样一看,貌似前途远大,因为自己才高八斗,学富五车,又忠君爱国,年富力强.与此发展下去,必定继往开来,开拓创新,不断开创大明社会经济发展新局面.但事实并非如此,由于一时冲动得罪了别人而......
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昨天公司和一个叫JA的NGO合作,在川大搞了个活动,内容是请一些已经有工作经验的人给还在校园的同学分享一下职场经验,使得他们对建立自己的career目标有所帮助.我参加了这次活动,目的一是看看现在的学生是不是和我们那时候一样也怀疑人生,二是因为公司有几个牛人也要去,我想也听听他们对career的一些看法,三是自己读大学的时候没机会参加,现在也算弥补.当然,如果学生会的同学们采访我,我肯定会说参加公益活动回馈社会这类的装B的P话.
活动在亲切友好的气氛中举行,川大对公司和JA举办这次活动表示了高度赞赏,希望借此能建立长期的可信赖的合作伙伴关系,我公司和JA笑而不语.
心得:
1.现在的大学生比我们那时候更怀疑人生.原因是显而易见的,每年的扩招已经把本科生搞得不值钱了,而且现在明显已经殃及到硕士研究生,在可预见的未来肯定会殃及博士.大家心里清楚自己值什么价钱,在聊到自己的career是时候大家还都挺务实的,没有好高骛远地吹牛逼,我对这一点表示赞赏.二是随着信息交流越来越频繁,大学生在学校的时候已经开始social了,虽然心里依然有naive的想法,但是做的事情已经开始向职场人士靠拢.或者用"早熟"这个词形容沾得到边.
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It is quite far away from easy to say how to success, but I still want to talk about this topic from my perspective. Different people may have different definitions about success, and in my eyes, success is to achieve an objective people desired, planned, or attempted. So, how to success means the way to obtain the goal to some extent. Basically, the way to success involves two essential aspects: thinking and action.
First of all, thinking mentally supports people when they are planning aim and implementing plan. On one hand, thinking decides the goal you make. It means people usually set up an aim by using their ideas, and the depth of thinking determines what their ideas are, how they think about the goal using their current ideas. For example, the poor people may just want to easily fulfill their stomach because they think success for them is just not starved. In a wealthy family, people may believe that success means to be well educated and get a degree in an education institute. Since as I mentioned before, there is no unified definition about success, the two objectives can be accepted. As for the difference between the two classes, it is just because they think about success in different ways, which is made by the different things they pay attention to, the different environment they live in. On the other hand, thinking helps people overcome the difficulty. There is no doubt that people always meet problems when they are working hard for the goal. Someone may want to give up if he or she feels hopeless, or change the plan he or she made to another purpose. At this time, positive thinking can make people not to loose heart and become optimistic, and inspire people that they will be close to the aim as long as they insist on what they are doing. Let me take myself as an example, I once got a very bad result for the college entrance exam and went into a shit university. Frankly speaking, I did not have a good time during the four college years. I was a good academic in high school but not in college, that is why I lost heart. However, I do have a character named will and it is formed during more than 10 yeas' grown-up, which is also generated by thinking. I told myself that I can even learn a lot from the lessons like college entrance exam, CET4. I was temporarily a loser but it does not ever mean that I will be totally a loser all of my life, and never. So I made a new plan which was of course realistic and I actually overcame a great number of issues which were mostly from the mental. Now I have to say that thinking really helps me a lot to go away from the devil during such a tough time. I do not mean that I am successful now, of course. What I mean is that thinking absolutely works even helps a lot when people meet something difficult.
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新学期又开学了,在已读完大一对大学生活熟悉了开始以老生自居开始有教师子女叫我叔叔开始成为油子的时候,至少2002年的我是这样.
如果上天再给我一次机会,我不会再做那件傻事.尽管时光不会倒流,但直到今天我依然相信,如果没有某人的出现,我的大学会很美好,我不会像大三那样狼狈,不会被一个拼命读书成绩却一直不咋的的SB鄙视(开玩笑,老子从小到大读书都没被鄙视过,更何况是被几个智障),不会靠作弊才pass现在看起来无比简单的通信原理(当然,这年头大学生作弊也不算新鲜事了),也不会想出国的时候发现可选的只有AU和NZ.
当然,这些现在看起来都不重要了.想想如今已是2009年,离本科毕业已经5年了,可我直到去了AU才有真正大学的感觉:和同学一起上课,一起group discuss,去老师办公室make an appointment,通宵写essay,考试前去library占座位复习,考试也不敢作弊,因为cheating leads to exclusion.其实想想,这些在国内也做得到,but I did not. What I actually did was to pay more attention to the one I should not care about.
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1995年,那是一个夏天,川北PA县一普通孩子小学毕业升入P中.按道理讲读初中是一件快乐的事情,但那年对那个孩子来说是无比的倒霉.原本升学考试成绩好得令人发指而认为稳能被P中录取,因此成绩一下来就早早去了CD过暑假,结果在某个闷热的下午得知自己被Z中录取,原因竟是Z中和S中的校长觉得成绩好的都被P中选了去,在教育局开会的时候大闹会场,果然是会闹的人有糖吃,教育局很快软下来,原来参考高考模式让学生填志愿一夕之间改成由电脑机选.那时候那孩子还不知道川北这个县城还有电脑这种先进玩意儿,更不知道当时未公开的机选是不是像世界杯抽签那样强队必须分到不同的组且赠与一顶高帽曰"种子队",反正就是被稀里糊涂地被抽到Z中.若干年后,那孩子和Z中一同学聊天,互报姓名之后,Z中同学说,啊,你就是XXX啊,当年进校的时候看录取榜你成绩是第一也,不过没看你读书,我还以为你是贫困生辍学了呢.其实说起来,Z中的师资力量是全县最好的,毕竟Z中地处县城,但问题也出在这里,因为地理环境的关系,Z中附近对学生的诱惑场所比较多,比如电子游戏厅,录像厅等等.孩子的长辈不止一次地地痛惜孩子的大哥哥当年读Z中的时候要是不常常翻墙......
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| 2009-6-27 星期六(Saturday) 晴 |
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应某人要求给单位7.1活动写串词,要有"十送红军、八月桂花开、万泉河水、大红枣儿香又甜"等相关字眼.
我想了想,赋诗如下:
向革命的Long Distance致敬
万泉河水清又清,桂花开时送红军.
红军一去千万里,妹妹心里多着急.
革命胜利再相见,红枣代表妹的心.
绝对是原创!
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| 2009-6-3 星期三(Wednesday) 晴 |
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1989年的明天,我学会了打麻将.当时的牌桌上,还有春夏秋冬中发白,我帮我爸打了一盘,他和其他三位叔叔在聚精会神地看着新闻.电视画面上,一个哥哥站在一辆长鼻子铁壳车面前,企图阻挡它前进.
1999年的明天,我认识了蔡依林.当时我不到17岁,正是一个准备进入雨季的少男;而她,以少男杀手的形象出现,轻而易举地俘获了我这个深埋在数理化的海洋中的准雨季少男.
2009年的明天,当我想到曾有一双天真无邪的眼睛不解地问我"你要那么多自由有什么用"的时候,我既伤感,又惭愧.
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在工资未涨的情况下,这个月竟然多交了200的税!!!
苛捐杂税,叫我们老百姓咋办啊?......
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属猪的人在这个多彩的敏感季节华丽地感冒了,还好不是swine flu.
My life without you will be in a mess again.
在BUS上听到一首阿杜的老歌,"如果没有你,我的生活回到一片狼藉",想了想,这么翻译不一定很准确,但是也算reasonable的吧.
这次我是有病呻吟了~~~~......
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每当我回头看夕阳红,
每当我又听到晚钟,
从前的点点滴滴会涌起,
在我来不及难过的心里.
-----老狼<睡在我上铺的兄弟>
PS,我没病,我在无病呻吟.
写于2009五四青年节......
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| 2009-4-29 星期三(Wednesday) 晴 |
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通常写完论文的时候,已经是凌晨3,4点,大脑昏昏沉沉,保存好文档,把文件保存到邮箱里面,然后洗脸漱口,怕声音太大吵到隔壁,所以小心翼翼.迷迷糊糊地,上床睡觉.
第一次醒来的时候通常是中午11:30,想想timetable貌似今天没课于是接着睡,心里还想着等会起床再把写好的论文改一遍,reference不要搞错了,手机确定要关闭,最烦睡觉的时候有人打进来.我房间夏天的时候门关不了,但是不关老鼠会跑进来,于是我用HP打印机+箱子把门堵上,没有一米阳光.窗帘睡前一定要拉下来的,这样我的房间就全黑了.不看表根本不知道现在是白天还是黑夜.既然是睡觉嘛,就安安心心地睡.
再一次醒来一般是在下午2点,翻翻身接着再睡,我的床对面就是一面大镜子,传说床对着镜子睡觉不好.我刚搬进来的第一周天天噩梦,不是梦见被人打就是被人追杀,我招谁惹谁了我?杨总给我画了一道符贴在镜子上,貌似好很多了.这时候睡的质量就不怎么好了,因为已经感觉睡得腰酸背痛,但是依然不想起来,把手机打开,听音乐,迷迷糊糊地也听不清楚在放什么.就这样又过了2小时.
下决心起床......
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