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爱·love
作者:wxinmao 提交日期:2007-10-4 9:16:00 正常 | 分类: | 访问量:269

爱,意味着我了解我所爱的人。我了解对方的诸多方面——不仅仅是美好的一面,而且包括不足之处,矛盾之处以及各种缺点。
Love means that I know the person I love. I'm aware of the many sides of the other person——not just the beautiful side but also the limitations,inconsistencies and flaws.
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爱,指的是关心我所爱的人的幸福。如果我真的关心你,就会关心你的成长,并希望你在一切可能的范围内成全自己。
Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I love. If I care about you,,I'm concerned about your growth,and I hope you will become all that you can become.
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爱,指的是维护我所爱的人的尊严。假如我爱你,我会把你看成一个具有自己的价值观,思想和感情独立的人,而不会要求你为了我而改变你的个性和屈从于我对你的期待。
Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I love. If I love you,I can see you as a separate person,with your own values and thoughts and feelings,and I do not insist that you surrender your identity and comform to an image of what I expect you to be for me.
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爱,指的是我对所爱的人有责任心。假如我爱你,我会把你看成一个有独立个性的人,对你的多数重要需求作出反应。
Love means having a responsbility toward the person I love. If I love you, I'm responsive to most of your major needs as a person.
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爱,指的是我和我所爱的人能从中共同获取成长的力量。假如我爱你,我就会因我的爱而在不断成长。你将会激励我更充分地发展我的潜能,而我对你的爱也将进一步完善你的整个人生。
Love means growth for both myself and the person I love.If I love you ,I am growing as a result of my love.you are stimulant for me to become more fully what I might become,and my loving enhances your being as well.
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爱,指的是对我所爱的人做出某种承诺。这种承诺并非指我们之间要完全屈从于对方,也不暗指我们之间的关系一定要永久不变。它实指我们必须相互依存的决心,不管是在平静和欢乐的日子,还是在、迷茫、挣扎和扲的时候,都不分离。
Love means making a commoment to the person I love.This commotment does not entail surrendering our total selves to each other,nor does it imply that the relationship is necessarily permanent.It does entail a willing to stay with each other in times of pain,uncertainty,struggle,and despair,as well as in times of calm and enjoyment.
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爱,指的是信任我所爱的人。假如我爱你,我就会相信你会接受我的关怀和我的爱,也相信你不会故意伤害我。我相信我们之间的爱有一种天然的互补性。
Love means trusting the person I love you ,If I love you ,Itrust that you will accept my caring and my love and that you won't deliberately hurt me. I trust the reciprocal nature of our love.
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爱,须能容忍不完美。在相爱的过程中,肯定会出现厌烦的时候,有我想放弃的时候,有十分紧张的时候,亦有我感到无望的时候。真爱并不一定会有持久的幸福。然而,在逆境中我会坚持下去,因为我能记起我们在过去共同拥有的美好时光,也能预见,假如我们对自己的问题给予足够的重视加以解决,我们会有光明的前景。
Love can tolerate imperfection. In a love relationship there are times of boredom,times when I may like lygiving up,times of real strain,and times I experience an impassr.Authentic love does not imply enduring happiness.I can stay during rough times,however,because I can remember what we had together in the past,and I can picture what we will have together in our future if we care enough to face our problems and work them through.
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爱,是自愿的。爱只能是无偿地奉献,而不是在需要时赊予。真爱的付出绝对没有任何附加条件,无条件才是它的品质。
Love is freeing.Love is freely given,not doled out demand.Authentic love is not given with strings attached.There is an unconditional quality about love.
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爱,是敞开的。假如我爱你,我会鼓励你向外发展并建立其他人际关系。鼓励对方去充分发展自己才是两人相爱的真实证明。
Love is expansive.If I love you ,I encourage you to reach out and develop other relationships.The honest evidence of our love is our commitment to encouraging another's full development.

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